sorry to intrude on your thread. hehe

newbie question. what are the early signs to look out for if your kitty is in heat? i have a female kitten (about 3 months old) we havent spayed her yet and worried that once she's in heat we'll find some strange male cat in our house. we have a few strays here and we dont really want to deal with that.

also.. not sure if this is true.. i heard from a friend that his cat (also a female but had been spayed) still showing signs that she's in heat. what's that called? so that i could probably google it later.

thanks... and sorry again