I have 3 cats.
1 was elder, the other 2, are brothers which has been together since they were born.

strange thing is, the little 2 fellas is now starting to get agressive.
things started to heat up until one got its hand bitten, bled, and we have no choice but to bring them for neuter.

but seems like it doesn't help.
One of the small ones still like to provoke his brother, and his brother keeps running away from him, and is always in fear, hiding below my sofa, my bed, etc.

I'm really frustrated and worried as to how to get them to get along well.
Please help, really needed some good advice.

Thanks in advance.

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that's why i don't want to have 2 males under the same shelter.. my friend also faced same prob as your.. in the end.. he offered 1 of his male to someone else.. even 1 is separated & locked in the cage also they scream to each other... might be territory problem.. i also don't know how to deal with this kind of prob... let's us wait for the experienced fella...

hmmmmmm......to be bitten and bleed is bad.....stop the fellow who provoke the brother when he does that....a tap on the nose (say no) or water spray.......a rotan would help too, not to beat but rather to give warning.

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chemonk, r the 2 males neutered?

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hmm ... worse still bila owner yg try to stop yg kene bitten n bleed n hospitalized.

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I have lots of male though in the house all neutered.....i don't have this problem......sometimes they have small fights like *i want to sit on that chair* but they never really fight until sctraches and bleeding......they would tap each other away.......I pratice letting them share feeding bowls and water bowls frm young.

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MC-san... as far as i know.. nope.. both of them not neutered.. but sayang la koceng tu... lawa gilos and very big with silver color.. but a bit penakot.. yg penakot tu yg my friend kasi kat org... huhuhu... I can't take his offer since that day I adopt 2 kittens.. takut kene makan plak kitten cheq... lagi meroyan cheq nanti...

exactly!!
honestly, i cant recall the time kalo kucing jantan aku yg neutered penah get into furious fights. tak penah gaknyer.
tapi yg fight selalunyer yg belum potong and kalo da potong pun lambat.
so, its kinda inborn aggressiveness to me.
biar kene cakar/gigit ngan minachi tapi jgn kene cakar/gigit ngan kucing, bisa!!!

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Hi everyone
really thanks for all the help and feedback

Suzy, i tried what u mentioned.
I tapped into the agressor's nose, and warned him.
i seperated him on a different room.

it does help for a moment, and then when we were not around, things started to get heated up again, and everything starts from scratch again.

do u think by continuing giving the tap-on-the-nose warning, it will help in changing its agressive behavious?

u mentioned about feeding your cats on the same feeding bowl? I do let them share their drinks and sandbox, but when it comes to feeding, i have to seperate them as they eat in different pace, and the fast eater will often go and eat everyone else's food :P

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laaaaa ... mc-san laaa pulakkk ...
chemonk, its true.
sterilisation plays a part. the best is to 'cut' at the right time.
sayang ... lawa2 tapi gengster la pulakkk

lionel, since u've oready brought them both for neuter ... give some time.
however, still separate the two. cuba lah wipe each kitty fur with a towel then let the other kitty smell it. hopefully it works, remember tis takes time - may be much longer than u expected.

wat i wld do is, shower them with the same shampoo ... then lap2 their fur then let each other smell.

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