"Great gift come with great responsibility"

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"Inteligent is use for a good mankind. Great power come with great responsibility"

thats wat uncle ben said

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I don't know if people will ever be able to talk to animals the way Doctor Doolittle could, or whether animals will be able to talk back. Maybe science will have something to say about that. But I do know people can learn to "talk" to animals, and to hear what animals have to say, better than they do now

Sy pon baru je kehilangan kucing..so sad sy rase org luar taman sy yg ambik sbb org taman memang kenal betul yg kucing tu kucing kami..sedih sgt..skang ni sy fikir nk tampal iklan satu pekan.semoga dapat jumpa kembali snowy kesayangan..ni gambar dia..really sad, hilang sejak ahad 20 may lepas..

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I am so sorry to hear that. I am also feeling so sad and depressed right now. Hope your snowy will be back soon safely.

I feel rather sad to see people getting offensive/defensive for this matter. Please, stop. It doesn't help much for the cat. Rather I suggest that:

1. Any of you, if you have the photo, please upload. That way, people can help look around for the cat.

2. Please, indicate clearly, where the cat was when missing...

3. Please, tell more about the cat's habit, eg: what he/she like to do, is a shy cat? like to get close to people?

4. Think of anything that might help others to spot your cat and help the cat if anyone found the cat!


Just some experience on myself: I picked up a cat from someone who put up the cat for adoption in internet (not this forum). I like the cat, but the cat went missing in less than a week time after I pick up the cat. I was terribly sorry. What the guy do:

1. He go around my house area searching for the cat (for continuosly 3 days)
2. He updated me on what he observed and think for the area.
3. Instead of blaming me, he console me that the cat is very likely adopted by a good family.

What I did:
1. Print out the photo of the cat, brief discription of the cat and my contact in color (so the picture is clearer), distribute it to every house in the area where I stay.
2. learnt my lesson -- do not bring a new cat to an old cat together unattended outdoor.

The cat didn't come back to me. But, I make a new friend. The guy who let me adopt the cat is now a good friend to me, sometimes I bring my Paris to his place and play with his other cats. I hope, both of you would talk to each other back, sort out the best way to find the missing cat. You might not find the cat back, but at least, you can help support each other in this painful time.

Anyway who wants to fight here?

Lets say u give ur most beloved cat to somebody 2 adopt, won't you want 2 knw how is he doing n so on? or will you just ignore it coz u have pass ur responsibilities to others?

Honestly speaking, I really can't forget my cat and thats why I asked her several times abt my cat. If I can't be bothered abt him, I won't take so much of trouble to go Malacca upon hearing this news on a working day.

Before I gave her to adopt, I have received a couple of PM from several ppl. All promising me to keep my cat safely indoor. The reason why I chosse Bhutan was she told me that she have got a female cat and she would take her cat around where ever she goes. Thats what I used to do. I felt that she is the right person coz at least my baby also will have a companion and loving owner. Besides that, I also could visit her anytime coz she is staying at Kota Damansara. I also told her the reason why I choose her.

However, I really got upset when she told me that she brought him to Malacca n left him at her sister's house. Because this is not what she told me earlier. If she have told me her intention to take him to Malacca n leave him there, I definetly won't give away to her coz I am not only looking for an owner for him but also a companion.

If he had lost at Kota Damansara, I definetly will spent most of my time there 2 locate him. How do u expect me 2 travel to Malacca up n down now? At least when I ask her any updates of him, she should just say yes or no. But instead she said i am so annoying n just ignored my sms.

I have got no intention to argue or fight here. Even earlier some of the forumers asked me who is the forumer, I did not even want to tell coz I don't want to worsen the situation.

Since she herself admit it. Good for her.

Lets say u give me ur cat n he went missing, will you just keep quiet n have a peaceful sleep? N moreover I don't even bother to reply ur sms or answer ur calls, What would you think abt me?

Is so easy to advise ppl....
But kalau kena baru tau...

I will upload the picture once I get it.

jypeach, at least the person who gave u 2 adopt the cat was staying nearby location and I guess you told him the truth immediately. When he contacted u, I guess you also answered his calls or sms. Did you ever ignore his calls? If he were outstation, I believe you would update him any news accordingly.

If I were treated the same, I won't create an issue out of it. At least I could console myself that the search is still goin on.

When my cat went missing, I didn't blame her at all. I was really frustrated whn she started to ignore my calls which created negative thoughts in me.

Smile,
Sorry, I share my experience not trying to say that you didn't do enough or expect you to go Melaka searching for your cat everyday, but instead, I'm hoping that both of you can work together in search of your lovely cat.

The guy who allow me to adopt his cat went to the area I stay to search for the cat, for 3 days. It's undoubtly that he care about his cat. I'm sure at that moment, he must have feeling regret to let me have his cat. But instead of getting angry at me, we both sit down and discuss "what can we do now". He's a free-lancer, where he don't have to report for work in the day time, so, he offer to help search for the cat in the day time. As for me, I have to work in the day time, but I can distribute the printout at night. I'm hoping that both of you can talk and discuss what both of you can do now, share the pain, give each other support. At the end, we didn't found the cat, and we both learn to let go.... yes, it's painful.... but it's part and parser of life...

I just feel sad to see things turn sour like that.... Really hope that both of you can work out a plan together to search for the cat. At the end of the day, if you've think that you've done all you can, help each other to let go.... be each other support.... that's what I hope.....

I won't give up so fast. This weekend I am going to Malacca again to locate him. He means a lot for me. There is no way I gonna let go just like that. He likes to explore a lot. But he gets very frightened outdoor. He is even scared of cars. I don't knw how he is surviving out there with so much of challenges. And it gonna be two weeks and i am sure he has travel a lot. Sometimes i even let him go out my apartment coz perhaps he could hear some female cats. After 1 hour he still won't be back but when I just go out calling for him. He could locate me and come back to where he belongs. He is really an intelligent cat. Thats why I have the confidence to locate him.

As Bhutan said he was so violent and bite her so badly but that never happens to me at all. From there I knw he terribly miss me so much. I wanted to keep him with me 4ever but what to do there is a time to let him go.

As I said earlier i am not here to fight. I am just sharing with you guys abt what happened. Again I am saying that I am frustrated because she is ignoring my calls n sms. Does it take so long to reply ur sms. Since she is not co-operative its ok. What to do? I have to go through this.

I know you are one of them who even PM me for my cat. I am not sure whether u rememeber but I still have ur message jyeapch. I was wrong in my judgement. I am sorry!

I am just praying hard and I have the confidence that miracle might happen to me. I will find my baby soon.

smile79,
I feel touched to know the way you love your cat. I wish you all the best in locating the cat.

Please do not say sorry, I might not do any better, really!

All the best! I pray for you as well.... Hope will hear good news from you next week. Good luck!