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24-05-2007, 12:15 PM
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Rehoming cats can be really tough.......that's why i don't practice it.
My worries and saddness goes for the cat.......the cat must be very blur why all of a sudden it has come homeless..... 
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24-05-2007, 01:55 PM
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When first I took him frm SPCA, I have got no intention to give him away and I promise myself I will keep him 4ever. For his companian I also bought a mixed breed persian kitten. I did everything for him to make him happy. The day I got to know that I am pregnant, I have to let both go. First I found a buyer for the new kitten.
When the doctor said is better 4 me 2 give away coz to protect my own baby, I really have no choice. I want both of them but everybody around me was putting so much pressure on me to let him go 2 the right owner. If not NO WAY i will give him to anyone coz that much I love him and is really hard 4 me to let go him. After he left me, I really suffered a lot and I couldn't take it. Normally, after work when I reach home, I am so use to it when he follows me around and he is so pampered and loving. He really loves me a lot. Where ever I go, I will take him. He is like a King in my house. I really feel so misreable the moment I gave him away. N now even worst donno how he is doing out there. I know he is looking 4 me. N I have hope that I will find him soon. Even I am not allowed to travel long distance, I will still do it 4 him coz he really means a lot 4 me. Last edited by smile79 : 24-05-2007 at 04:14 PM.
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24-05-2007, 02:33 PM
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its ok...the cat is an animal...he can survive on his on..
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24-05-2007, 03:04 PM
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Dear Smile79,
I feel sad listening to your predicament - not only about the lost cats but even the incident of you having to give them up. So far that I know, the one thing that connect cat with harming pregnancy is toxoplasmosis... but i understand u were so torn with all this... anyway, don't get too stressed out k? Some how i think u gotta learn to let go already... God knows better - He will bring your cat back if its meant to be. Try all you can, but if you can't find, don't be too hard on yourself, and learn to forgive also.. harboring anger wouldn't do you and your baby any good, right? Take care and God bless...
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24-05-2007, 03:18 PM
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Thanks beekgurl. I am trying hard 2 4get him but I really can't get him out of my mind. These two weeks, I went through hell. I just don't knw how he can cope outside there. No proper food and he have to fight 4 food with other stray cats and he have to drink dirty drain water. N also he got some eye problem always watery. Nobody to clean 4 him the dirt. N he might get some infections from other strays coz he is very sensitive. He easily get infected with disease coz previously it happened 2 him. I really get tensed up whn I think all this. At least he should have waited 4 the next day till Bhutan return 2 me back.
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24-05-2007, 05:28 PM
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Hi smile... don't try coz u won't be able to - the more u try the more u find urself hard to let go. Just let it be - if he comes to your mind, u wanna cry etc, then let it out. Just don't stress yourself too much k? Have faith in God will take good care of him out there... he has his immunization shots so far, right? I can understand the heart wrenching feeling that you feel everytime u think of him... once i'd tried to picture if this happened to my own cat, i couldn't even bear to continue thinking.. can't even think of giving them up for adoption... thank God He'd been very good and protective - once my living room door was ajar the whole night (my latch is very very bad) and i only found out in the morning! But because of the familiar environment, none of them ran away. I guess ur boy is just trying to find you back.. he might or might not succeed.. but let's pray and hope for the best k? If you can go look for him, please still do... if not, keeping praying
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#29
25-05-2007, 09:17 AM
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Due to my bad health condition, I am not able to go Malacca as I planned. I just hope that one day he will be back. I hope where ever he is, he will be fine and be healthy always. From my this experience and pain, I decided not 2 get any cats anymore in my life. What I went through is more than enough. I can't go through this pain again in my life. I just hope Bhutan will find him back.
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