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Old 22-10-2004, 09:47 AM
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no hard feelings everyone.. but i feel soo uncomfortable since i posted that stupid jokes in the chit chat section. i never meant to make fun out of anyones religion.. i never thought it would raise such issues coz i thought its just about being human with their religion.. but i dont think my excuses are excepted, i am still the bad guy with racist mentality.. i suppose i made a huge mistake.. i asked bg to delete the thread alredy.. so do not worry..


i am soo sorry everyone.. it is never a good feeling to make anyone unhappy or angry.. i am so sorry that my apologies are not accepted.. so there.. its been a pleasure foruming with everyone of you, its just never good to be 'duri dalam kasut.' (if that phrase is right ) so peace. may God bless you.
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Old 22-10-2004, 10:14 AM
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no hard feelings everyone.. but i feel soo uncomfortable since i posted that stupid jokes in the chit chat section. i never meant to make fun out of anyones religion.. i never thought it would raise such issues coz i thought its just about being human with their religion.. but i dont think my excuses are excepted, i am still the bad guy with racist mentality.. i suppose i made a huge mistake.. i asked bg to delete the thread alredy.. so do not worry..


i am soo sorry everyone.. it is never a good feeling to make anyone unhappy or angry.. i am so sorry that my apologies are not accepted.. so there.. its been a pleasure foruming with everyone of you, its just never good to be 'duri dalam kasut.' (if that phrase is right ) so peace. may God bless you.


u already said u sorikan....sometimes people make mistake takpe la..lagi pun tak perlulah sampai nak quit dari sini...i pun rasa semua ok aper....dibulan puasa nih marilah kita bermaaf maafan...

p/s: kepada semua selamat hari raya maaf zahir dan batin...
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Old 22-10-2004, 10:45 AM
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gee... weez... i'm ever soo lucky to have stumbled upon this forum! i feel a lot better with all of your soothing invitations... thanks.. thanks.. thanks soo.. soo... much! only a cat can keep me sane with all the crazy studies.. eheehehehe...

i used to feed this one particular feral kitten in my college last year... she was so fierce and never let anyone near her.. but i was patient in feeding her.. (just her..) she actually comes and follow me around when she sees me.. close but never let me touch her... god! i miss her! i named her Cera.. i meant to bring her home but Kuching wont allow it.. and i have to let her go.. she's really a beauty... and other students thinks of me as weird coz you know, when ppl sit down by the road, they're usually sitting with their gf/bf... (dating ler.. kat celah-celah, tepi-tepi jalan kat parking kreta...) but i usually sat down feeding a feral kitten! hehehe....


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remember you wrote the above? Well, we don't have to actually get along with every tom, dick and harry in the forum ok! We sometimes agree and sometimes dont. That is life. I assume u're still a student right? That is how the world is...wait till u start working!!
We're all here because we share a common love & interest in CATs. The rest let bygones be bygones
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Old 22-10-2004, 11:07 AM
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Ika - The voice of reason. Yeah Burnian, in life sometimes we make mistakes or we say or do something that people won't like. Isn't it better if people tell you straight than they going behind your back and bitching about you? When I was younger I used to just bite my lip and just take it when people are not nice to me. Then I would bitch about it to other people. In the end I told myself no more, then I told this person that she really made me uncomfortable. Fortunately, our relationship floundered as she didn't want to see from my POV. I have also been told off before by people I regard as good friends for behaving or saying something wrong. That their feelings were hurt etc. I quickly apologised because although I did not intend to hurt, this person was hurt. Today, I enjoy a very honest and open relationship with her.

Everybody makes mistakes and we should be thankful when people tell us about it. Not everybody will do it, instead they would laugh behind your back or bitch about you.

If you go to other forums, it is so much more vicious. Kitten forum is one of the best I've been to. Don't drop out lah, it would be a stupid reason to. You've apologised already.
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Old 22-10-2004, 12:04 PM
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ello guys..

burnian, u shouldnt quit, the 1st reason why we... all of us join this forum is bcoz we share the same interest, our passion for the cat. about ur prob, u already say sorry what..and to whoever yg terasa dgn si burnian ni,sudah2 lah tu..bulan posa nie...
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Old 22-10-2004, 12:35 PM
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Hi Burnian,

I thought that incident had been long gone with the wind. y u need to hurt the wound again. As what Ika mentioned, we r here becoz we hv something in common which is our affections on cats. That is all.

Therefore, forget abt the past and focus on the present and the future. Remember that we sometimes make mistake. That is what humans do. But to be a human, one must learn from mistakes and grow and not running away. Some might regard this wud be a small thing but how would it reflect into our life. Regardless that u're a student or working adult is not an issue. It is a matter how u live ur life n how well u do it. It is all entirely depends on u n not others. Do not let others' remarks mar ur objective in here as well in ur daily life. Believe in urself and live ur life to the fullest. you shud take criticism with a open heart and not with a narrow mind.

Therefore, the choice is at ur hands. What wud it be??
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aiyo!!! like this also got meh.....i thought this thing is settled already.... well burnian, we r not borned perfect n we do make mistakes....but it's over long time ago, so why should u bring this up again.....i guess evryone has forgotten about it....please reconsider things and as far as i'm concern, non of us or the particular person is mad at you....lets just forget things and come back to the forum.....
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hmmm question is.... is he still reading these?
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hmmm question is.... is he still reading these?

I think Burnian is a 'she'. I hope he/she is reading it! It shows how much we cat lovers cares about our members here even though some of us have never laid eyes on each other!

Terkasar, tersalah faham, terusik...all part of asam garam hidup...that is y it has a 'ter' or else it is called 'sengaja'.
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Old 22-10-2004, 01:38 PM
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hi there....hey, I really hope you stay...i can tell that you're a real nice person just talking to you so, pls stay ok.
Like everyone says...we all have made mistakes...even the ones who think they're perfect...I'm sure we just learn from them.
Anyways...i hope you read this and change your mind to stay instead...after what happened to Nyenc, I feel this is the best place for you to share your feelings too...cos we all love cats rite...
Well do tc and hope to see you sticking around..
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